When it comes to getting a girl, there’s one things that guys often ask themselves: Just what are women looking for? Wouldn’t it be so much easier if we knew exactly what a girl wanted from you? That way we’d no exactly how to act, and what to do in order to win her over.
In reality however, it’s never really that simple. There’s no ‘one size fits all’ when it comes to what a girl’s wants and needs are, this is for the simple fact:
We Are All Human
Think about it, how different are you from your friends? Do you all want the same type of girl? Do you all want the same thing out of a relationship? Do you even all want a relationship? My guess is that you are quite different when it comes to these things, and girls are no different.
The think is, we’re all human. The experiences we’ve had in out lives have made us the people we are, so no two people are the same. What may be attractive to one girl may be a complete turn off to another, so thinking that you can act one way and all girls will like you is completely unrealistic. Having said that, there are a few ways you can figure out what it is she’s after.
How To Find Out What She Wants From A Man
- Ask Her.
One of the easiest ways to find out what a specific girl wants from a man is to simply ask her. While this may not always be practical to do (For example, if you’ve only just met this woman), if you’ve already spoke to her a while you may be able to ask her this. That way, you’ll have a much better idea of what she is after.
- Observe Her.
If you’re not in a position to ask her what she wants, you can always observe her and see if she gives off any clues. The best way to do this is by striking up a conversation with her. See how she reacts to certain things you say, and if she shows any interest towards you. From there you will have a better idea if you’re the type of person she is looking for, and can take it from there.
It is important to remember that you shouldn’t bend backwards to be the person that she wants. If you have to put on a act to become what she desires, sooner or later the ability to keep acting will fade away. It is often best to be yourself around the opposite sex, and get a girl that likes you for you.