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"I began going to school with white kids for the first time, and my body became subject to discourse and scrutiny. "
“Until recently, the question remained theoretical. But it’s not an exaggeration to say that President Trump is running plays straight out of Hitler’s playbook.”
"It wasn’t until months after he was gone that I realized Dojo had been on the same journey I had taken."
“It was the beginning of a long walk for both of us — a parallel path that spiraled inward, then unfolded.”
“To this day, I’ve only shared this with a few trusted friends, and certainly not any family members.”
"When my husband and I discussed trying to have a baby, I knew I had to face these feelings head-on."
“She was too young to know when a stranger asks you how you are, you’re supposed to say, ‘I’m fine,’ and move on.”
"I didn’t have the language to understand that there might be something slightly more psychological about my inability to say no to spending."
"My 'type' wasn’t just a preference: It was an algorithm shaped by media and colonial history."
"There were a few phrases that came up over and over again. ... Many just floated past me ... but others became lodged under my skin."
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